Shootin4Dreams
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this video is changing my mind how to conversation with women when I ask where do u work I know to reply in sarcastic teasing way. etc.. so YES YES yes!
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Guys who have trouble talking to girls in conversation here you go!
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this video is changing my mind how to conversation with women when I ask where do u work I know to reply in sarcastic teasing way. etc.. so YES YES yes!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Shootin4Dreams
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When and how would you guys inject sexual questions into conversation though?
sunnykhatri736
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The way that guy is mentioning on how to talk to women in that video . I already do that naturally . I mean that comes naturally in me since birth.
zekko
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Why does it seem like every one of these PUA guru types comes off like some kind of slimy tool?
I tend to agree with this. Either approach can work, this way just makes everything happen easier IMO.
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That isn't going to get you laid tho as you already found out if all you are willing to do is talk to them. You still have to get sexual and escalate.
A guy who doesn't know how to talk to women that well but gets sexual and escalates will get laid far more often than a guy who knows how to talk to women but doesn't get sexual or escalate.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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"All you need is the DJ Bible"
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This is undoubtedly true, although I question the need to lead with the sexual stuff. Depends on the context and the situation, IMO. Obviously if you are at a party with drinking looking to hookup with some strange chick that night, you might want to lead with the sexual stuff. In a somewhat more formal social setting, maybe not.
I also wonder about the kind of girl who responds to a guy who immediately goes to the sexual material. Such a girl might be more the slvtty type, although I guess that is the type of girl that a typical PUA wants to target.