"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
guy who is not afraid of losing his life is sexy?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
backseatjuan
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he is old, average face and body. Bruce willis is sexy.
ya sure, an actor and singer, very masculine.
backseatjuan
Banned
I meant
A. Buld body nice face
B. High smv guy is achiever
that dude in video is practically invisible, although I’m sure after this news footage his local smv will go up.
guy it’s all about looks, attraction is looks. Get ripped.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Mike32ct
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Ballz ALONE doesn't really attract women. We touched on that in another thread when we dispelled the PUA myth that she's impressed by you having the ballz to approach her.
Travel memoir21
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The middle age bearded 50 year old dude who knows how to hunt, fish, live in the woods and fire a shotgun/ sniper.
Or the 'hot" metrosexual hipster who can't cook,is knowledgeable only gel and hair spray and takes a buncha selfies, constantly looks in the mirror all day, seeking validation on social media?
Lol, I think the answer is obvious.
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Time was the country was full of guys like this, now most men are just a bunch of pvssies, sitting squirming in their seats with the other women. It's not all their fault though, real men have been systematically attacked and weeded out.
Mike32ct
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Today, you could lay dying somewhere. They'll just film you with their phone rather than try to help or get help for you.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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metalwater
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SHE will try to make it a threesome.
I am not saying the women on the train are getting wet
but if this guy goes up to a woman after the fact and she recognizes him from earlier, he is not sexy? I feel like it would make the difference between him getting laid on the first date vs not even getting her number.
mrgoodstuff
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He was on the news too in Chicago. And ran a marathon later that day. Ladies will be interested.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
White knights "using their balls" to put down other men in the eyes of women or god (which they believe is some gay dude). This actually aggressive and attention seeking. They want a hero story.
Where were these bitzs when a girl I used to sleep with stole my weed