"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
guy who is not afraid of losing his life is sexy?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
backseatjuan
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he is old, average face and body. Bruce willis is sexy.
ya sure, an actor and singer, very masculine.
backseatjuan
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I meant
A. Buld body nice face
B. High smv guy is achiever
that dude in video is practically invisible, although I’m sure after this news footage his local smv will go up.
guy it’s all about looks, attraction is looks. Get ripped.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mike32ct
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Ballz ALONE doesn't really attract women. We touched on that in another thread when we dispelled the PUA myth that she's impressed by you having the ballz to approach her.
Travel memoir21
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The middle age bearded 50 year old dude who knows how to hunt, fish, live in the woods and fire a shotgun/ sniper.
Or the 'hot" metrosexual hipster who can't cook,is knowledgeable only gel and hair spray and takes a buncha selfies, constantly looks in the mirror all day, seeking validation on social media?
Lol, I think the answer is obvious.
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Time was the country was full of guys like this, now most men are just a bunch of pvssies, sitting squirming in their seats with the other women. It's not all their fault though, real men have been systematically attacked and weeded out.
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Today, you could lay dying somewhere. They'll just film you with their phone rather than try to help or get help for you.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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metalwater
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SHE will try to make it a threesome.
I am not saying the women on the train are getting wet
but if this guy goes up to a woman after the fact and she recognizes him from earlier, he is not sexy? I feel like it would make the difference between him getting laid on the first date vs not even getting her number.
mrgoodstuff
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He was on the news too in Chicago. And ran a marathon later that day. Ladies will be interested.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
White knights "using their balls" to put down other men in the eyes of women or god (which they believe is some gay dude). This actually aggressive and attention seeking. They want a hero story.
Where were these bitzs when a girl I used to sleep with stole my weed