"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
guy who is not afraid of losing his life is sexy?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
backseatjuan
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he is old, average face and body. Bruce willis is sexy.
ya sure, an actor and singer, very masculine.
backseatjuan
Banned
I meant
A. Buld body nice face
B. High smv guy is achiever
that dude in video is practically invisible, although I’m sure after this news footage his local smv will go up.
guy it’s all about looks, attraction is looks. Get ripped.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Ballz ALONE doesn't really attract women. We touched on that in another thread when we dispelled the PUA myth that she's impressed by you having the ballz to approach her.
Travel memoir21
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The middle age bearded 50 year old dude who knows how to hunt, fish, live in the woods and fire a shotgun/ sniper.
Or the 'hot" metrosexual hipster who can't cook,is knowledgeable only gel and hair spray and takes a buncha selfies, constantly looks in the mirror all day, seeking validation on social media?
Lol, I think the answer is obvious.
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Time was the country was full of guys like this, now most men are just a bunch of pvssies, sitting squirming in their seats with the other women. It's not all their fault though, real men have been systematically attacked and weeded out.
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Today, you could lay dying somewhere. They'll just film you with their phone rather than try to help or get help for you.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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metalwater
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SHE will try to make it a threesome.
I am not saying the women on the train are getting wet
but if this guy goes up to a woman after the fact and she recognizes him from earlier, he is not sexy? I feel like it would make the difference between him getting laid on the first date vs not even getting her number.
mrgoodstuff
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He was on the news too in Chicago. And ran a marathon later that day. Ladies will be interested.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
White knights "using their balls" to put down other men in the eyes of women or god (which they believe is some gay dude). This actually aggressive and attention seeking. They want a hero story.
Where were these bitzs when a girl I used to sleep with stole my weed