"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
guy who is not afraid of losing his life is sexy?
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
backseatjuan
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he is old, average face and body. Bruce willis is sexy.
ya sure, an actor and singer, very masculine.
backseatjuan
Banned
I meant
A. Buld body nice face
B. High smv guy is achiever
that dude in video is practically invisible, although I’m sure after this news footage his local smv will go up.
guy it’s all about looks, attraction is looks. Get ripped.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Ballz ALONE doesn't really attract women. We touched on that in another thread when we dispelled the PUA myth that she's impressed by you having the ballz to approach her.
Travel memoir21
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The middle age bearded 50 year old dude who knows how to hunt, fish, live in the woods and fire a shotgun/ sniper.
Or the 'hot" metrosexual hipster who can't cook,is knowledgeable only gel and hair spray and takes a buncha selfies, constantly looks in the mirror all day, seeking validation on social media?
Lol, I think the answer is obvious.
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Time was the country was full of guys like this, now most men are just a bunch of pvssies, sitting squirming in their seats with the other women. It's not all their fault though, real men have been systematically attacked and weeded out.
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Today, you could lay dying somewhere. They'll just film you with their phone rather than try to help or get help for you.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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metalwater
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SHE will try to make it a threesome.
I am not saying the women on the train are getting wet
but if this guy goes up to a woman after the fact and she recognizes him from earlier, he is not sexy? I feel like it would make the difference between him getting laid on the first date vs not even getting her number.
mrgoodstuff
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He was on the news too in Chicago. And ran a marathon later that day. Ladies will be interested.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
White knights "using their balls" to put down other men in the eyes of women or god (which they believe is some gay dude). This actually aggressive and attention seeking. They want a hero story.
Where were these bitzs when a girl I used to sleep with stole my weed