DIESEL
Master Don Juan
bump..
hey cutler.. want to handle the cutting guide? I'm pretty busy these days.
peace,
D
hey cutler.. want to handle the cutting guide? I'm pretty busy these days.
peace,
D
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That means you multiply 110 x 1.3 or 1.4 or 1.5 and that output of that result is the amount of protein you should be taking each day. He doesn't mean divide by using '/' he means 'per'. Ex. 1.5 grams PER #body weight.Originally posted by gotnone:
I don't understand how to read it.
Protein: 1.3-1.5g / # of body weight
Carbs: 2-3g/ # of body weight
Fat .33 - .5g / # of body weight
I'm 110 lb.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Thank you Diesal and Steve.Originally posted by DIESEL:
yes, precisely !! Thanks, Steve.
Hope it's clearer now gotnone.
I'm flattered! LOLOriginally posted by Demon:
Diesel, you've always been a ****head around here, but thanks for posting this guide.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
thats a smart way to say "thanks" !Originally posted by Demon:
Diesel, you've always been a ****head around here, but thanks for posting this guide.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
By cardio you're not burning a lot of calories. you're doing it for only 15-20 minutes before the workout. This gets your heart going and you will be able to last longer throughout the workout. Calories shouldnt be a problem. Just eat a bit more.Originally posted by cutler:
vronski...
i agree with diesel
are you telling me that I am all wrong too?
I am 5'7 220lb's @ 8% bodyfat.
I warm up for 10minutes, followed by 10minutes of stretching.
i aint the biggest guy, but i've been training for years.
for a true hardgainer, cardio is going to do nothing but burn excess calories...
when you are bulking, you try to keep physical activity to a minimum. i still do cardio once or twice a week, for cardiovascular health.
but it is not as though you wil grow so big overnight that your heart cannot adapt to your body.
please educate yourself about this.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.