"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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GUIDE TO BULKING UP

DIESEL

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bump..

hey cutler.. want to handle the cutting guide? I'm pretty busy these days.

peace,
D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't understand how to read it.

Protein: 1.3-1.5g / # of body weight
Carbs: 2-3g/ # of body weight
Fat .33 - .5g / # of body weight

I'm 110 lb.
 

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Originally posted by gotnone:
I don't understand how to read it.

Protein: 1.3-1.5g / # of body weight
Carbs: 2-3g/ # of body weight
Fat .33 - .5g / # of body weight

I'm 110 lb.
That means you multiply 110 x 1.3 or 1.4 or 1.5 and that output of that result is the amount of protein you should be taking each day. He doesn't mean divide by using '/' he means 'per'. Ex. 1.5 grams PER #body weight.
 

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How come ranged? Why not specifically 1.3 or something? Is lower more accurate? Or higher?

[This message has been edited by gotnone (edited 09-20-2002).]
 

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dude it's not like if you're off by .02grams your body is gonna shut down on you. He's just laying out approximate figures for guidelines man.

I eat a lot of proteins in my normal diet, meat everyday and drink milk so 3-4 glasses of milk roughly thats about 30grams + my lunch and dinner meats of about 35grams (probably less) = around 65 grams of protein right there...

So I am just gonna take about 55 grams supplement of protein each day when I get the stuff next week for approximately a total of 120grams of protein a day. I currently weigh 108 lbs.

120 divided by 108 = APPROXIMATELY 1.1 grams per lbs of body weight of protein a day. Some days I will be averaging more protein, some days will be less! Dude once again, don't freak over being off a bit... just use the numbers as guidelines.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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aight D, youve got some great info here.


gotta Q though. i have football practice, we lift three days a week. so basically theres no way around cardio...i know my main target is performance but im still looking to get "even more" cut. will it effect me trying to get cut doing the cardio?
(i practice six days a week, and only lift three)

oh yeah, any tips on what to eat without hurting my performance on the field while still trying to cut up?

i know im asking alot, but dawg you tha best here
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anyway...
~1~

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Demon:
Diesel, you've always been a ****head around here, but thanks for posting this guide.
thats a smart way to say "thanks" !

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a DJ project under heavy conrstuction.
 

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ok you know you've given all these measurements or protein, carb etc. well is there like an actual guide or menu of the things to eat every day to get the right nutrients?
 

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they sell nutritional almanacs at any big bookstore, like Barnes and Noble, Borders, Amazon, B Daltons, etc... that have the nutritional stats of basically every food you can ram down your throat.

Every serious trainer should have one.

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hey D...what you say on stuff like weight gainers (im bulking now @13% bf!) my problem is that i really cant eat enough everyday, and i NEED quick meal replacements to get enough calories specially protien, what should i do?
 

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give them a shot, as long as you don't get fat.. also make sure to get as much protein as you can.. keeping around the guidelines I set out in the original post at the beginning of the thread.

D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Diesel, your guide was helpful, and this is what I am now doing.

Workout 4 times per week
Eat 3000 calories per day
Get at least 7 hours of sleep per night

However, can you give me a GOOD workout plan for those 4 days I work out?

My goal is to gain mass. I am 5'7, 140 right now but want to get to 150 or 155. I plan to be to at least 150 by the middle of December.

Thank You
 

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Cardio will fock you up when bulking. The ONLY way you should do cardio while bulking is if you take in as much calories as you burned during it.
 

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Diesel,

Whenever I work out I seem to get dizzy/light-headed after each set. Is this normal? I actually have to take a water break after every 1-2 reps.


.Drow
who'd like to know.

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If this is a beginner's guide to bulking up.. I need an ignorant's guide then. I don't understand much of it.
 

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Originally posted by cutler:
vronski...

i agree with diesel
are you telling me that I am all wrong too?
I am 5'7 220lb's @ 8% bodyfat.

I warm up for 10minutes, followed by 10minutes of stretching.

i aint the biggest guy, but i've been training for years.

for a true hardgainer, cardio is going to do nothing but burn excess calories...

when you are bulking, you try to keep physical activity to a minimum. i still do cardio once or twice a week, for cardiovascular health.

but it is not as though you wil grow so big overnight that your heart cannot adapt to your body.

please educate yourself about this.
By cardio you're not burning a lot of calories. you're doing it for only 15-20 minutes before the workout. This gets your heart going and you will be able to last longer throughout the workout. Calories shouldnt be a problem. Just eat a bit more.

And yes, running alone you will never get you big, but combined with workouts it will help you.

If the top guys didnt need running, they wouldnt be doing it. They would just save the calories, as you say.

I'm just telling you what worked for me. I was 77kg(170 pounds), 6 feet 2 years ago. Then I hit the gym. Right now I'm 105 kg (230 lbs) and still growing. I have about 20-30 lbs of fat, but I need the belly to continue growing.

If I run for 20 minutes before workout, then I can do last sets much easier then without the running.

BTW: I also have to mention that I swim sprint competitively, so my opinions are a bit biased, since I still need some cardio.

By no means I wanna argue, but since this is the ultimate bulk up guide I was temted to insert my 2 cents, cause its nice to feel big AND healthy, not just big.

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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