"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Grouped up with girls for project.. want to get with one of them.

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So basically I'm in a group with a couple girls for a class project, one of them I think is attracted to me from the way she looks at me in class at times. Well basically we are gonna meet up a couple times a week at school to work on the project.. i live on residence none of them do.. and when I told them that the girl was like "well were all going there after this" and i didnt say anything for some reason lol. so anyways any ideas for getting with this girl? probably better to try something after the project is done? its an end of the semester type project so after this class i may never see her again.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I am guessing you probobly have all their numbers... If not get everyone's phone number.
Next, after working on a project invite them to dinner or some fun event. Show them you are fun... next call the girl you are interested in, ask a random question about project and move the conversation into another direction. Try to find out as much as possible about her and ask her if she wants to ...... fill in the blank.
 
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Im taking Woman's studies at Cal State San Marcos right now and there's like 30 HBs and 2 guys including me, when I found out there is group work I was amped!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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well we've all been meeting and i've never really got alone time with her. so alot of the convos we've been having have been related to school or the project with some side things here and there. today was our last meet as a group, but we have one more class. she mentioned to me that we have another class together, that I didnt know about(big lecture hall). she said.. "you're in ***** right, did the professor say anything about the exam?" and i said i left early so i didn't know. i only think ive built a little bit of rapport with her, but i do think theres some attraction still. so should i just ask her to study the other course with me? should i try and get her to study in my dorm? how would you guys approach this? oh yea also i only have her email and not phone #.
 
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