"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Grouped up with girls for project.. want to get with one of them.

Crestpaste

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So basically I'm in a group with a couple girls for a class project, one of them I think is attracted to me from the way she looks at me in class at times. Well basically we are gonna meet up a couple times a week at school to work on the project.. i live on residence none of them do.. and when I told them that the girl was like "well were all going there after this" and i didnt say anything for some reason lol. so anyways any ideas for getting with this girl? probably better to try something after the project is done? its an end of the semester type project so after this class i may never see her again.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Prodigy746

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I am guessing you probobly have all their numbers... If not get everyone's phone number.
Next, after working on a project invite them to dinner or some fun event. Show them you are fun... next call the girl you are interested in, ask a random question about project and move the conversation into another direction. Try to find out as much as possible about her and ask her if she wants to ...... fill in the blank.
 

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Im taking Woman's studies at Cal State San Marcos right now and there's like 30 HBs and 2 guys including me, when I found out there is group work I was amped!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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well we've all been meeting and i've never really got alone time with her. so alot of the convos we've been having have been related to school or the project with some side things here and there. today was our last meet as a group, but we have one more class. she mentioned to me that we have another class together, that I didnt know about(big lecture hall). she said.. "you're in ***** right, did the professor say anything about the exam?" and i said i left early so i didn't know. i only think ive built a little bit of rapport with her, but i do think theres some attraction still. so should i just ask her to study the other course with me? should i try and get her to study in my dorm? how would you guys approach this? oh yea also i only have her email and not phone #.
 
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