"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Grouped up with girls for project.. want to get with one of them.

Crestpaste

New Member
Joined
Sep 16, 2008
Messages
7
Reaction score
0
So basically I'm in a group with a couple girls for a class project, one of them I think is attracted to me from the way she looks at me in class at times. Well basically we are gonna meet up a couple times a week at school to work on the project.. i live on residence none of them do.. and when I told them that the girl was like "well were all going there after this" and i didnt say anything for some reason lol. so anyways any ideas for getting with this girl? probably better to try something after the project is done? its an end of the semester type project so after this class i may never see her again.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Prodigy746

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 18, 2007
Messages
696
Reaction score
14
I am guessing you probobly have all their numbers... If not get everyone's phone number.
Next, after working on a project invite them to dinner or some fun event. Show them you are fun... next call the girl you are interested in, ask a random question about project and move the conversation into another direction. Try to find out as much as possible about her and ask her if she wants to ...... fill in the blank.
 

Bluesteak

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 17, 2008
Messages
135
Reaction score
1
Location
Kalifornia
Im taking Woman's studies at Cal State San Marcos right now and there's like 30 HBs and 2 guys including me, when I found out there is group work I was amped!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

Crestpaste

New Member
Joined
Sep 16, 2008
Messages
7
Reaction score
0
well we've all been meeting and i've never really got alone time with her. so alot of the convos we've been having have been related to school or the project with some side things here and there. today was our last meet as a group, but we have one more class. she mentioned to me that we have another class together, that I didnt know about(big lecture hall). she said.. "you're in ***** right, did the professor say anything about the exam?" and i said i left early so i didn't know. i only think ive built a little bit of rapport with her, but i do think theres some attraction still. so should i just ask her to study the other course with me? should i try and get her to study in my dorm? how would you guys approach this? oh yea also i only have her email and not phone #.
 
Top