"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Grouped up with girls for project.. want to get with one of them.

Crestpaste

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So basically I'm in a group with a couple girls for a class project, one of them I think is attracted to me from the way she looks at me in class at times. Well basically we are gonna meet up a couple times a week at school to work on the project.. i live on residence none of them do.. and when I told them that the girl was like "well were all going there after this" and i didnt say anything for some reason lol. so anyways any ideas for getting with this girl? probably better to try something after the project is done? its an end of the semester type project so after this class i may never see her again.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Prodigy746

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I am guessing you probobly have all their numbers... If not get everyone's phone number.
Next, after working on a project invite them to dinner or some fun event. Show them you are fun... next call the girl you are interested in, ask a random question about project and move the conversation into another direction. Try to find out as much as possible about her and ask her if she wants to ...... fill in the blank.
 

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Im taking Woman's studies at Cal State San Marcos right now and there's like 30 HBs and 2 guys including me, when I found out there is group work I was amped!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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well we've all been meeting and i've never really got alone time with her. so alot of the convos we've been having have been related to school or the project with some side things here and there. today was our last meet as a group, but we have one more class. she mentioned to me that we have another class together, that I didnt know about(big lecture hall). she said.. "you're in ***** right, did the professor say anything about the exam?" and i said i left early so i didn't know. i only think ive built a little bit of rapport with her, but i do think theres some attraction still. so should i just ask her to study the other course with me? should i try and get her to study in my dorm? how would you guys approach this? oh yea also i only have her email and not phone #.
 
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