"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Grouped up with girls for project.. want to get with one of them.

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So basically I'm in a group with a couple girls for a class project, one of them I think is attracted to me from the way she looks at me in class at times. Well basically we are gonna meet up a couple times a week at school to work on the project.. i live on residence none of them do.. and when I told them that the girl was like "well were all going there after this" and i didnt say anything for some reason lol. so anyways any ideas for getting with this girl? probably better to try something after the project is done? its an end of the semester type project so after this class i may never see her again.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I am guessing you probobly have all their numbers... If not get everyone's phone number.
Next, after working on a project invite them to dinner or some fun event. Show them you are fun... next call the girl you are interested in, ask a random question about project and move the conversation into another direction. Try to find out as much as possible about her and ask her if she wants to ...... fill in the blank.
 
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Im taking Woman's studies at Cal State San Marcos right now and there's like 30 HBs and 2 guys including me, when I found out there is group work I was amped!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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well we've all been meeting and i've never really got alone time with her. so alot of the convos we've been having have been related to school or the project with some side things here and there. today was our last meet as a group, but we have one more class. she mentioned to me that we have another class together, that I didnt know about(big lecture hall). she said.. "you're in ***** right, did the professor say anything about the exam?" and i said i left early so i didn't know. i only think ive built a little bit of rapport with her, but i do think theres some attraction still. so should i just ask her to study the other course with me? should i try and get her to study in my dorm? how would you guys approach this? oh yea also i only have her email and not phone #.
 
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