kingxxxman
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Grinding question? When you grind, are you and the girls hips supposed to be moving in unison or should it be like smash smash smash? any vids to learn how to grind?
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How the hell are you "grinding" if they never move in unison? Yes, your hips should move in unison, at least every now and then, while grinding. I'm sure there are videos on YouTube you can find.E_Sex said:
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hahaha, smash smash smash sounds smoooooth.
But yeah, that's a good video. Remember, it's okay if you get hard. We all do, they expect you to.
But yeah, that's a good video. Remember, it's okay if you get hard. We all do, they expect you to.
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That guy just straight up annoys me. They are barely even grinding in there. It's more "Look how cool moving my shoulders is!!! Oh yeah, let me dance with her for a second. OK! Back to rolling my shoulders."Blackmm said:
Right there is an example of people that CAN dance just looking absolutely ridiculous. You simply can't dance like that in a bar/club. Not enough space (thank god... I might laugh if I saw that). But.. at least they aren't going smash smash smash!
EDIT: Here is, at least, a more realistic example: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ygE-hFXSdos&feature=related
Gray The Prince
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There's a lot of different ways to grind. I usually grind with rhythm or just fuck the girl with my clothes on. 
kingxxxman
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right so it should be lots of bodily contact and bumping and stuff, not just moving in unison?
Maxtro
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Interesting videos.
I usually hate going to clubs because I have no idea how to grind.
Sure I can; salsa, cha-cha, waltz, tango, two-step, swing etc. But they don't teach grinding
I usually hate going to clubs because I have no idea how to grind.
Sure I can; salsa, cha-cha, waltz, tango, two-step, swing etc. But they don't teach grinding
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Just push your crouch onto the woman's booty and it'll go with the flow. She'll be in control of the movement, and you're hips will follow.
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I'm not so sure those are 100% mutually exclusive. There should be a rhythm to grinding, whether your are moving left to right together, in circles together, or more "bumping".kingxxxman said:
Even when you do more bumping or thrusting, there should still be a rhythm that matches up with what she is doing. Your d!ck doesn't need to be stuck in her a$$ the entire time, but I will pay to see a girl stay around a random guy dancing like the one in that first video, in a crowded club.
You can also grind face to face. In this case usually one of your legs is between hers.
Don't forget to let your hands wander a bit :yes: Just keep it sexy, don't go grabbing a handful.