kingxxxman
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Grinding question? When you grind, are you and the girls hips supposed to be moving in unison or should it be like smash smash smash? any vids to learn how to grind?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How the hell are you "grinding" if they never move in unison? Yes, your hips should move in unison, at least every now and then, while grinding. I'm sure there are videos on YouTube you can find.E_Sex said:
Chickfight
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hahaha, smash smash smash sounds smoooooth.
But yeah, that's a good video. Remember, it's okay if you get hard. We all do, they expect you to.
But yeah, that's a good video. Remember, it's okay if you get hard. We all do, they expect you to.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That guy just straight up annoys me. They are barely even grinding in there. It's more "Look how cool moving my shoulders is!!! Oh yeah, let me dance with her for a second. OK! Back to rolling my shoulders."Blackmm said:
Right there is an example of people that CAN dance just looking absolutely ridiculous. You simply can't dance like that in a bar/club. Not enough space (thank god... I might laugh if I saw that). But.. at least they aren't going smash smash smash!
EDIT: Here is, at least, a more realistic example: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ygE-hFXSdos&feature=related
Gray The Prince
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There's a lot of different ways to grind. I usually grind with rhythm or just fuck the girl with my clothes on. 
kingxxxman
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right so it should be lots of bodily contact and bumping and stuff, not just moving in unison?
Maxtro
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Interesting videos.
I usually hate going to clubs because I have no idea how to grind.
Sure I can; salsa, cha-cha, waltz, tango, two-step, swing etc. But they don't teach grinding
I usually hate going to clubs because I have no idea how to grind.
Sure I can; salsa, cha-cha, waltz, tango, two-step, swing etc. But they don't teach grinding
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Just push your crouch onto the woman's booty and it'll go with the flow. She'll be in control of the movement, and you're hips will follow.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I'm not so sure those are 100% mutually exclusive. There should be a rhythm to grinding, whether your are moving left to right together, in circles together, or more "bumping".kingxxxman said:
Even when you do more bumping or thrusting, there should still be a rhythm that matches up with what she is doing. Your d!ck doesn't need to be stuck in her a$$ the entire time, but I will pay to see a girl stay around a random guy dancing like the one in that first video, in a crowded club.
You can also grind face to face. In this case usually one of your legs is between hers.
Don't forget to let your hands wander a bit :yes: Just keep it sexy, don't go grabbing a handful.