kingxxxman
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Grinding question? When you grind, are you and the girls hips supposed to be moving in unison or should it be like smash smash smash? any vids to learn how to grind?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
How the hell are you "grinding" if they never move in unison? Yes, your hips should move in unison, at least every now and then, while grinding. I'm sure there are videos on YouTube you can find.E_Sex said:
Chickfight
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hahaha, smash smash smash sounds smoooooth.
But yeah, that's a good video. Remember, it's okay if you get hard. We all do, they expect you to.
But yeah, that's a good video. Remember, it's okay if you get hard. We all do, they expect you to.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That guy just straight up annoys me. They are barely even grinding in there. It's more "Look how cool moving my shoulders is!!! Oh yeah, let me dance with her for a second. OK! Back to rolling my shoulders."Blackmm said:
Right there is an example of people that CAN dance just looking absolutely ridiculous. You simply can't dance like that in a bar/club. Not enough space (thank god... I might laugh if I saw that). But.. at least they aren't going smash smash smash!
EDIT: Here is, at least, a more realistic example: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ygE-hFXSdos&feature=related
Gray The Prince
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There's a lot of different ways to grind. I usually grind with rhythm or just fuck the girl with my clothes on. 
kingxxxman
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right so it should be lots of bodily contact and bumping and stuff, not just moving in unison?
Maxtro
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Interesting videos.
I usually hate going to clubs because I have no idea how to grind.
Sure I can; salsa, cha-cha, waltz, tango, two-step, swing etc. But they don't teach grinding
I usually hate going to clubs because I have no idea how to grind.
Sure I can; salsa, cha-cha, waltz, tango, two-step, swing etc. But they don't teach grinding
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Just push your crouch onto the woman's booty and it'll go with the flow. She'll be in control of the movement, and you're hips will follow.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I'm not so sure those are 100% mutually exclusive. There should be a rhythm to grinding, whether your are moving left to right together, in circles together, or more "bumping".kingxxxman said:
Even when you do more bumping or thrusting, there should still be a rhythm that matches up with what she is doing. Your d!ck doesn't need to be stuck in her a$$ the entire time, but I will pay to see a girl stay around a random guy dancing like the one in that first video, in a crowded club.
You can also grind face to face. In this case usually one of your legs is between hers.
Don't forget to let your hands wander a bit :yes: Just keep it sexy, don't go grabbing a handful.