“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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kingxxxman

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Grinding question? When you grind, are you and the girls hips supposed to be moving in unison or should it be like smash smash smash? any vids to learn how to grind?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Whatever you do, don't move your hips in unison... looks extremely stupid.
 

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E_Sex said:
Whatever you do, don't move your hips in unison... looks extremely stupid.
How the hell are you "grinding" if they never move in unison? Yes, your hips should move in unison, at least every now and then, while grinding. I'm sure there are videos on YouTube you can find.
 

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hahaha, smash smash smash sounds smoooooth.

But yeah, that's a good video. Remember, it's okay if you get hard. We all do, they expect you to.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Blackmm said:
That guy just straight up annoys me. They are barely even grinding in there. It's more "Look how cool moving my shoulders is!!! Oh yeah, let me dance with her for a second. OK! Back to rolling my shoulders."

Right there is an example of people that CAN dance just looking absolutely ridiculous. You simply can't dance like that in a bar/club. Not enough space (thank god... I might laugh if I saw that). But.. at least they aren't going smash smash smash!

EDIT: Here is, at least, a more realistic example: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ygE-hFXSdos&feature=related
 

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right so it should be lots of bodily contact and bumping and stuff, not just moving in unison?
 

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Interesting videos.

I usually hate going to clubs because I have no idea how to grind.

Sure I can; salsa, cha-cha, waltz, tango, two-step, swing etc. But they don't teach grinding :(
 

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Just push your crouch onto the woman's booty and it'll go with the flow. She'll be in control of the movement, and you're hips will follow.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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kingxxxman said:
right so it should be lots of bodily contact and bumping and stuff, not just moving in unison?
I'm not so sure those are 100% mutually exclusive. There should be a rhythm to grinding, whether your are moving left to right together, in circles together, or more "bumping".

Even when you do more bumping or thrusting, there should still be a rhythm that matches up with what she is doing. Your d!ck doesn't need to be stuck in her a$$ the entire time, but I will pay to see a girl stay around a random guy dancing like the one in that first video, in a crowded club.

You can also grind face to face. In this case usually one of your legs is between hers.

Don't forget to let your hands wander a bit :yes: Just keep it sexy, don't go grabbing a handful.
 
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