It seems that all the hot girls in my school end up hanging out with complete jackasses. The girls themselves are ok, but some of their friends are just plain nasty. I understand that most of you are gonna say to simply look for girls in other places, but believe me... I've tried that, and had no luck, as school is the main place in my neighborhood/town to get girls. Any help?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Great Girls... But some of their friends are crap
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
You said it yourself, it 'seems' as if all the hot girls end up hanging with jerks. It seems? So that, correct me if I'm mistaken, surely means you haven't tried ALL the hot chicks right? Stop playing the victim mentality and beat your defence mechanisms ie; the hot girls want jerks.
Take responsibility for yourself and stop trying. Remove that word from your diction, go and do. Make it happen player!
Take responsibility for yourself and stop trying. Remove that word from your diction, go and do. Make it happen player!
BPH
Master Don Juan
Ignore. Show the girl how awesome you are and include her in your agenda and you won't have to see her friends.
apocolipto
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Make everyone friends. 
If everyone likes you, they would have no prob with you and the girl is yours.
Smile, talk to everyone and TALK some more. Don't be boring.
It's easy once you change the mindset to: "Everybody likes me." You don't need to be a jackass, just be that cool dude with the magnetic personality.
Good luck.
If everyone likes you, they would have no prob with you and the girl is yours.
Smile, talk to everyone and TALK some more.
Don't be boring.It's easy once you change the mindset to: "Everybody likes me." You don't need to be a jackass, just be that cool dude with the magnetic personality.
Good luck.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Apoco above me is right. It's about being happy and positive.
But don't overdo it or you'll seem like you're trying to suck their ****s. Learn to banter, and balance your friendliness by making fun of those guys sometimes. In order for this to work, know your state. If you're angry, go away, since being angry will make you seem like an ******* to everyone.
But don't overdo it or you'll seem like you're trying to suck their ****s. Learn to banter, and balance your friendliness by making fun of those guys sometimes. In order for this to work, know your state. If you're angry, go away, since being angry will make you seem like an ******* to everyone.