It seems that all the hot girls in my school end up hanging out with complete jackasses. The girls themselves are ok, but some of their friends are just plain nasty. I understand that most of you are gonna say to simply look for girls in other places, but believe me... I've tried that, and had no luck, as school is the main place in my neighborhood/town to get girls. Any help?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Great Girls... But some of their friends are crap
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
You said it yourself, it 'seems' as if all the hot girls end up hanging with jerks. It seems? So that, correct me if I'm mistaken, surely means you haven't tried ALL the hot chicks right? Stop playing the victim mentality and beat your defence mechanisms ie; the hot girls want jerks.
Take responsibility for yourself and stop trying. Remove that word from your diction, go and do. Make it happen player!
Take responsibility for yourself and stop trying. Remove that word from your diction, go and do. Make it happen player!
BPH
Master Don Juan
Ignore. Show the girl how awesome you are and include her in your agenda and you won't have to see her friends.
apocolipto
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Make everyone friends. 
If everyone likes you, they would have no prob with you and the girl is yours.
Smile, talk to everyone and TALK some more. Don't be boring.
It's easy once you change the mindset to: "Everybody likes me." You don't need to be a jackass, just be that cool dude with the magnetic personality.
Good luck.
If everyone likes you, they would have no prob with you and the girl is yours.
Smile, talk to everyone and TALK some more.
Don't be boring.It's easy once you change the mindset to: "Everybody likes me." You don't need to be a jackass, just be that cool dude with the magnetic personality.
Good luck.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Apoco above me is right. It's about being happy and positive.
But don't overdo it or you'll seem like you're trying to suck their ****s. Learn to banter, and balance your friendliness by making fun of those guys sometimes. In order for this to work, know your state. If you're angry, go away, since being angry will make you seem like an ******* to everyone.
But don't overdo it or you'll seem like you're trying to suck their ****s. Learn to banter, and balance your friendliness by making fun of those guys sometimes. In order for this to work, know your state. If you're angry, go away, since being angry will make you seem like an ******* to everyone.