"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Great Girls... But some of their friends are crap

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It seems that all the hot girls in my school end up hanging out with complete jackasses. The girls themselves are ok, but some of their friends are just plain nasty. I understand that most of you are gonna say to simply look for girls in other places, but believe me... I've tried that, and had no luck, as school is the main place in my neighborhood/town to get girls. Any help?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nino-Tk

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You said it yourself, it 'seems' as if all the hot girls end up hanging with jerks. It seems? So that, correct me if I'm mistaken, surely means you haven't tried ALL the hot chicks right? Stop playing the victim mentality and beat your defence mechanisms ie; the hot girls want jerks.

Take responsibility for yourself and stop trying. Remove that word from your diction, go and do. Make it happen player!
 

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Nino-Tk said:
You said it yourself, it 'seems' as if all the hot girls end up hanging with jerks. It seems? So that, correct me if I'm mistaken, surely means you haven't tried ALL the hot chicks right? Stop playing the victim mentality and beat your defence mechanisms ie; the hot girls want jerks.

Take responsibility for yourself and stop trying. Remove that word from your diction, go and do. Make it happen player!
K, I'll see what I can do. Maybe I'll be able to find a quieter time/place to avoid some of the jackasses.
 

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Make everyone friends. :)

If everyone likes you, they would have no prob with you and the girl is yours.

Smile, talk to everyone and TALK some more. :) Don't be boring.

It's easy once you change the mindset to: "Everybody likes me." You don't need to be a jackass, just be that cool dude with the magnetic personality.

Good luck. :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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LearningSlowly

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Apoco above me is right. It's about being happy and positive.

But don't overdo it or you'll seem like you're trying to suck their ****s. Learn to banter, and balance your friendliness by making fun of those guys sometimes. In order for this to work, know your state. If you're angry, go away, since being angry will make you seem like an ******* to everyone.
 
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