It seems that all the hot girls in my school end up hanging out with complete jackasses. The girls themselves are ok, but some of their friends are just plain nasty. I understand that most of you are gonna say to simply look for girls in other places, but believe me... I've tried that, and had no luck, as school is the main place in my neighborhood/town to get girls. Any help?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Great Girls... But some of their friends are crap
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
You said it yourself, it 'seems' as if all the hot girls end up hanging with jerks. It seems? So that, correct me if I'm mistaken, surely means you haven't tried ALL the hot chicks right? Stop playing the victim mentality and beat your defence mechanisms ie; the hot girls want jerks.
Take responsibility for yourself and stop trying. Remove that word from your diction, go and do. Make it happen player!
Take responsibility for yourself and stop trying. Remove that word from your diction, go and do. Make it happen player!
BPH
Master Don Juan
Ignore. Show the girl how awesome you are and include her in your agenda and you won't have to see her friends.
apocolipto
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Make everyone friends. 
If everyone likes you, they would have no prob with you and the girl is yours.
Smile, talk to everyone and TALK some more. Don't be boring.
It's easy once you change the mindset to: "Everybody likes me." You don't need to be a jackass, just be that cool dude with the magnetic personality.
Good luck.
If everyone likes you, they would have no prob with you and the girl is yours.
Smile, talk to everyone and TALK some more.
Don't be boring.It's easy once you change the mindset to: "Everybody likes me." You don't need to be a jackass, just be that cool dude with the magnetic personality.
Good luck.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Apoco above me is right. It's about being happy and positive.
But don't overdo it or you'll seem like you're trying to suck their ****s. Learn to banter, and balance your friendliness by making fun of those guys sometimes. In order for this to work, know your state. If you're angry, go away, since being angry will make you seem like an ******* to everyone.
But don't overdo it or you'll seem like you're trying to suck their ****s. Learn to banter, and balance your friendliness by making fun of those guys sometimes. In order for this to work, know your state. If you're angry, go away, since being angry will make you seem like an ******* to everyone.