It seems that all the hot girls in my school end up hanging out with complete jackasses. The girls themselves are ok, but some of their friends are just plain nasty. I understand that most of you are gonna say to simply look for girls in other places, but believe me... I've tried that, and had no luck, as school is the main place in my neighborhood/town to get girls. Any help?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Great Girls... But some of their friends are crap
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Nino-Tk
Master Don Juan
You said it yourself, it 'seems' as if all the hot girls end up hanging with jerks. It seems? So that, correct me if I'm mistaken, surely means you haven't tried ALL the hot chicks right? Stop playing the victim mentality and beat your defence mechanisms ie; the hot girls want jerks.
Take responsibility for yourself and stop trying. Remove that word from your diction, go and do. Make it happen player!
Take responsibility for yourself and stop trying. Remove that word from your diction, go and do. Make it happen player!
BPH
Master Don Juan
Ignore. Show the girl how awesome you are and include her in your agenda and you won't have to see her friends.
apocolipto
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Make everyone friends. 
If everyone likes you, they would have no prob with you and the girl is yours.
Smile, talk to everyone and TALK some more. Don't be boring.
It's easy once you change the mindset to: "Everybody likes me." You don't need to be a jackass, just be that cool dude with the magnetic personality.
Good luck.
If everyone likes you, they would have no prob with you and the girl is yours.
Smile, talk to everyone and TALK some more.
Don't be boring.It's easy once you change the mindset to: "Everybody likes me." You don't need to be a jackass, just be that cool dude with the magnetic personality.
Good luck.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
LearningSlowly
Master Don Juan
Apoco above me is right. It's about being happy and positive.
But don't overdo it or you'll seem like you're trying to suck their ****s. Learn to banter, and balance your friendliness by making fun of those guys sometimes. In order for this to work, know your state. If you're angry, go away, since being angry will make you seem like an ******* to everyone.
But don't overdo it or you'll seem like you're trying to suck their ****s. Learn to banter, and balance your friendliness by making fun of those guys sometimes. In order for this to work, know your state. If you're angry, go away, since being angry will make you seem like an ******* to everyone.