ElCubanito13
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ok so i got a HB phone number...so im asking how many days do i wait b4 i call her
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
got number...how many days to wait????
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BongDuy
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call her whenever YOU feel like it.
ElCubanito13
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umm....too true man and i see u r in south florida...me 2
War Against Betaism
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I don't get this with people. Who the hell thought of this stupid 3 day rule after you get a chicks number in the first place? You don't wait too long to call her but then again you don't want to call her immediately after you get it either.
eaglez1177
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Just wait a day, not three lol....and you dont have to CALL her ya know, you can TEXT her too. If you get a num, and call a girl the next day, that will come off as being more needy than texting her instead. Texting a girl is more informal and casual.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
ElCubanito13
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yea i see u guys' point
I agree that you shouldn't call the next day, 2-3 days is fine. I think the difference between texting and a phone call has a lot to with how well you two know each other. If you go to the same school or something and she already has the impression that you're not a pvssy, then you can text. But, if it was a random cold approach, I really don't understand how texting is acceptable.eaglez1177 said:
Am I wrong?
Hell, I made a thread about this a few hours ago lol.
ElCubanito13
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well we go to the same school n i haven't been a pvssy with her
eaglez1177
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Well I personally would much rather text simply because you dont run the risk of having an awkward phone conversation. Im sure some of you have had that before, and it really sucks.
Tyson420
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One day.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ElCubanito13
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yeah it doeseaglez1177 said:
sageproduct
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Haha yeah, i had a couple REALLY bad ones last year when I was all caught up in the "texting means you're a ***** so you should call" stuff. Also, I think phone calls have to be pretty short because otherwise you turn into her girlfriend since they have hour long conversations with each other all the time.eaglez1177 said:
jeffthechef
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Master the art of conversationsageproduct said:
sageproduct
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Haha yeah, that'll make me hate phone calls less.jeffthechef said:Master the art of conversation
phatboi408
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2 days. day 1 youre too interested.. day 3 she lost interest in you....
and there is texting game which is anytime. but dont over use it, because youll just end up being her texting buddy and wont ever hang out..
and there is texting game which is anytime. but dont over use it, because youll just end up being her texting buddy and wont ever hang out..
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.