got number...how many days to wait????

[ElCubanito13]

ok so i got a HB phone number...so im asking how many days do i wait b4 i call her

 

[BongDuy]

call her whenever YOU feel like it.

 

[ElCubanito13]

umm....too true man and i see u r in south florida...me 2

 

[War Against Betaism]

I don't get this with people. Who the hell thought of this stupid 3 day rule after you get a chicks number in the first place? You don't wait too long to call her but then again you don't want to call her immediately after you get it either.

 

[eaglez1177]

Just wait a day, not three lol....and you dont have to CALL her ya know, you can TEXT her too. If you get a num, and call a girl the next day, that will come off as being more needy than texting her instead. Texting a girl is more informal and casual.

 

[ElCubanito13]

yea i see u guys' point

 

[thedoc]

Just wait a day, not three lol....and you dont have to CALL her ya know, you can TEXT her too. If you get a num, and call a girl the next day, that will come off as being more needy than texting her instead. Texting a girl is more informal and casual.

I agree that you shouldn't call the next day, 2-3 days is fine. I think the difference between texting and a phone call has a lot to with how well you two know each other. If you go to the same school or something and she already has the impression that you're not a pvssy, then you can text. But, if it was a random cold approach, I really don't understand how texting is acceptable.

Am I wrong?

Hell, I made a thread about this a few hours ago lol.

 

[ElCubanito13]

well we go to the same school n i haven't been a pvssy with her

 

[eaglez1177]

Well I personally would much rather text simply because you dont run the risk of having an awkward phone conversation. Im sure some of you have had that before, and it really sucks.

 

[Tyson420]

One day.

 

[ElCubanito13]

Well I personally would much rather text simply because you dont run the risk of having an awkward phone conversation. Im sure some of you have had that before, and it really sucks.

yeah it does

 

[sageproduct]

Well I personally would much rather text simply because you dont run the risk of having an awkward phone conversation. Im sure some of you have had that before, and it really sucks.

Haha yeah, i had a couple REALLY bad ones last year when I was all caught up in the "texting means you're a ***** so you should call" stuff. Also, I think phone calls have to be pretty short because otherwise you turn into her girlfriend since they have hour long conversations with each other all the time.

 

[jeffthechef]

Haha yeah, i had a couple REALLY bad ones last year when I was all caught up in the "texting means you're a ***** so you should call" stuff. Also, I think phone calls have to be pretty short because otherwise you turn into her girlfriend since they have hour long conversations with each other all the time.

Master the art of conversation

 

[sageproduct]

Master the art of conversation

Haha yeah, that'll make me hate phone calls less.

 

[phatboi408]

2 days. day 1 youre too interested.. day 3 she lost interest in you....

and there is texting game which is anytime. but dont over use it, because youll just end up being her texting buddy and wont ever hang out..