Got in a fight with the girlfriend

[absolutealex]

Whoa... It's scary when the only seemingly viable solution is self castration... Especially when it isn't.....

What do you think?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

But see don't you guys think going over there is a bit desperate? I kinda feel like maybe she needs her space.

Needs her space?? Why, to fume over the situation? I don't get this, why do guys choose this as an option? Your dog throws up in the middle of the kitchen, do you leave it in hopes that it will somehow become less messy in a couple of days? Women aren't guys, they don't forgive and forget; they never forget.

 

[absolutealex]

Needs her space?? Why, to fume over the situation? I don't get this, why do guys choose this as an option? Your dog throws up in the middle of the kitchen, do you leave it in hopes that it will somehow become less messy in a couple of days? Women aren't guys, they don't forgive and forget; they never forget.

so what viable solution do you suggesT?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

What do you think?

Well, what do you want from this woman? Do you want a fling or do you want her to actually care about you?

 

[absolutealex]

Well, what do you want from this woman? Do you want a fling or do you want her to actually care about you?

I'd say I care about her a good ammount.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I'd say I care about her a good ammount.

Alright, in "specific" guy terms. Do you like her more or less than your car and what do you want from her?

 

[absolutealex]

Alright, in "specific" guy terms. Do you like her more or less than your car?

haha good question, but I'd say that I like her more than my car.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

haha good question, but I'd say that I like her more than my car.

Ahhh, so you're beginning to get interested in her huh? I'll give you a solution in PM...

Sorry fellas....

 

[absolutealex]

wow, she wants to break up over this

 

[Last Man Standing]

wow, she wants to break up over this

She is sexing (hoing with) another dude!!!

 

[MacAvoy]

If you like her more than your car, you've got to be willing to take a risk. The obvious (I mean AFC) route would be to apologize, buy her flowers and tell her it will never happen again.

If you want her back, tell her that breaking up is fine. Tell her "Thanks for opening my eyes to your true colours. Yes I made a mistake but I don't have time in my life for games." Wish her good luck and move on.

If she has any interest in you, she'll be thrown off guard and will likely come back. However by the sounds of thing, she already has low IL and was probably gettin plugged by someone else why you were on vacation.

Chances are if you threw a fit because an emergency came up and she couldn't spend 15 minutes with you, you've probably done a bunch of AFC things in the past that lead to your demise. Its not like you had anything planned and she was sick and you give her grief, you got whats comin to you bud.

 

[absolutealex]

K done, I said it.

 

[00Kevin]

What she did was very disrespectful of you.

If she doesn't show you more respect then it is over.

If you are a man you will hand her an ultimatum now!

Don't talk to her until she wants you and wants to show respect toward you.

If she isn't the type of girl that can realize that you were disrespected then leave that hoe and start dating another girl right away.

 

[00Kevin]

She is sexing (hoing with) another dude!!!

exactly.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

wow, she wants to break up over this

Most women would want to. She wants to cut her losses. It doesn't help that she's sick too. She feels that since she's been treated as if she were alone, she might as well be alone.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Ahhh, so you're beginning to get interested in her huh? I'll give you a solution in PM...

Sorry fellas....

After you gave him the solution she now wants out of the relationship!! What's up with that advice?

 

[Moby_On_D]

Just remember women don't think, they "feel". So give it a couple days and if she doesn't call you, give her a call and talk about it. Even if you know you are right, sometimes it saves the headache of just letting it be.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

After you gave him the solution she now wants out of the relationship!! What's up with that advice?

Actually he did something before getting my advice. Anyway, you know how women think when they're sick, it's a little less logical. She's either going to apprehensively try to work things out or she would rather be right and stubbornly hold her ground. Either way, they will both figure out whether the other is able to working out disagreements.

 

[absolutealex]

Actually he did something before getting my advice. Anyway, you know how women think when they're sick, it's a little less logical. She's either going to apprehensively try to work things out or she would rather be right and stubbornly hold her ground. Either way, they will both figure out whether the other is able to working out disagreements.

she's going to hold her ground, that is just her style. I ended things for the best.

 

[Last Man Standing]

Mainly because, I had just come back from vacation and had not seen her for about 2 weeks and also I was stuck in meetings all day and was not able to make it over until later in the afternoon, which meant I was sitting in traffic for a good hour.

We planned to meet up, we're hanging out for about 15 minutes - her best friend makes an international call to her with a crisis. She says it's a really big deal and asks me to leave - I am bothered by this.

There are a lot of red flags here my man -- I don't like the smell of this!!!!!!!!

You haven't seen her in two weeks and you wait one hour in traffic and when you get there she tells you to leave after only 15 minutes?????? Because of a phone call??? HUH????? doesn't make sense!!!!

She talks to others but not you and you were the one gone for two weeks!!!!

The call was from a dude and this is why she told you to ski-daddle - get out!!!

She was getting "busy" with another dude while you were away - you suddenly get into an argument with her and then she erupts and wants out???? HUH???? There is another hidden issue here!!!! Don't be a chump and apologize - you did nothing wrong!!! She is sexing another dude!!!

Why did you argue in the first place? You caught her in a lie??

She was having the stomach flu - so there was not much to be done. However, it really bugged me so I brought it up to her and a fight ensued. This morning, she told me that I was really selfish and have not heard from her since.

This has absolutely nothing to do with her sickness - this is a diversionary hor tactic!!!!

Hors always call dudes selfish - this means she is putting the blame on you and is trying to make you be the guilty one for her leaving - don't buy this!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She set you up - the argument was a pretext - she had planned on leaving you before you left for vacation!!!

This is a classic hor exit strategy scenario and most dudes don't know this technique unless they know the mind of hors very well!!!