"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Got hit on and got a number from a sexy 25 year old at the water park today. Why? Because I am in shape.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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EyeBRollin
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Are you doing barbell squats with a training belt?
No haha would that carve out the lines from the belt? I do them without a belt (and sometimes without pants at all since i lift in my home gym a lot lol)
EyeBRollin
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Try it. Heavy. The belt activates the core more when training squats and deadlifts. Trust me.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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173 lbs 5'8" around 11-12%. Very close to a full 6-pack, abs visible thru Dry-Fit compression shirts when I wear them. They look like thick slabs of ribs.
Thickly muscled with big lats and wide shoulders. About the only muscle group that lags on me is biceps, everything else grows pretty well. Veins going crazy including in weird places like my abs and chest.
My chiropractor calls me a Brahma Bull because of how thick my traps are and he has a hard time doing neck adjustments because of them
Not really...I rock a shaved head now so I kinda look like a drill sergeant.
It's always been a little weird for me...some average chicks think I'm meh and some hot chicks think I'm hot...one of those types where I have a pretty wide scale depending on who the woman is.