"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Got a phone call tonight.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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TurboOverCubicInches
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.I know the type. Some of those college athlete girls like to have their college athlete guy friends protect them. He isn't gonna do anything. Find out where you live? Puh-Leeze! He's probably some guy on the football or baseball team at the girl's school. Not someone who is likely to obtain the resources to find out everything about you. I woulda laffed in his face and said come get me.
Don't worry.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
dude this guy is a troll, that orignial post of his was probably fake.. nobody is this dense let the thread dieOriginally posted by TurboOverCubicInches
Did we NOT tell you a few weeks ago this girl was bad news? See. Behold the wisdom of an experienced DJ
I know the type. Some of those college athlete girls like to have their college athlete guy friends protect them. He isn't gonna do anything. Find out where you live? Puh-Leeze! He's probably some guy on the football or baseball team at the girl's school. Not someone who is likely to obtain the resources to find out everything about you. I woulda laffed in his face and said come get me.
Don't worry.
midwestguy
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true. I think he might have been a football player. She is a polite girl and maybe didnt want to laugh in my face when I asked her out? Im 5-9 140ish and ok looking. Guess thats why Im not her type?Originally posted by TurboOverCubicInches
Did we NOT tell you a few weeks ago this girl was bad news? See. Behold the wisdom of an experienced DJ
I know the type. Some of those college athlete girls like to have their college athlete guy friends protect them. He isn't gonna do anything. Find out where you live? Puh-Leeze! He's probably some guy on the football or baseball team at the girl's school. Not someone who is likely to obtain the resources to find out everything about you. I woulda laffed in his face and said come get me.
Don't worry.
midwestguy
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Why is it they dont like it when you smother them? Shes very polite and maybe thats why at first she accepted the invitation. Also I said "do you live far from her" she said no of course and I told her if I could pick her up and shes like "thats ok I can drive myself and meet you somewhere" Does that mean she didnt really trust me??
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Kid-Icarus
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HAHAHAHAHA
I wonder how many people are stupid enough to continue this.
I think Wyldefire made it obvious that he's a troll doing this for attention.
actually anyone who continues giving him sincere advice not realizing he's screwing with our heads, is dumber than he is.... but please continue.. i'm laughing my ass of reading this..
Hey West keep asking questions please.
tmpgstx
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Centaurion
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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You'd at least find out real quick if it was her boyfriend or some a$$hole fronting. If it was a trick she pulled, no guy in his right mind is gonna start beef with a crazy dude to do some girl a favor.
But if not, then just let it go.
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he sounded pretty mean but I think he was full ofit trying to sound big bad.Originally posted by squirrels
Depending on how bad-ass you feel, you could flip the tables...go looking for HIM. Take that, "Nobody threatens my ass and gets away with it!" attitude.
You'd at least find out real quick if it was her boyfriend or some a$$hole fronting. If it was a trick she pulled, no guy in his right mind is gonna start beef with a crazy dude to do some girl a favor.
But if not, then just let it go.
midwestguy
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midwestguy
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I really do want her still.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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