"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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good flrty txt msgs?

chalk

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can anyone point me towards a few good lists of flirty text messages?

Working on this girl at work and need to keep the flirting a bit subtle for now.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I really think it'd be better if you just talked to her. Hard to convey flirting unless your face to face.
 

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8===============D

Mines Bigger :p lol.

DJ and Text Message are antonyms buddy... It's unlawful to use them in the same sentence... you now have to be castrated and injected with estrogen

Thankyou
 
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tactic

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what do most flirters say? if you know, use it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm fully aware of the fact that text message flirting isn't exactly a "DJ" thing to do but the situations kinda unique. We work in a small office and theres only 8 of us so talking face to face isn't a problem..... in fact it's all going well and i've been flirting yesterday and today, slowly building a bit of kino up. It's just that we're sending the odd flirty message to each other when we're only a meter away from each other and it's got a knid of "naughty and secret" feel to it. Like nobody else in the office is aware of it which makes it exciting. know what i mean?

Anyway i found acouple of sites so i'll post them incase anyone else tries to search for the same thing.

http://www.txt2nite.com/menu.html

http://www.smsmasters.co.uk/forum/archive/index.php/f-23.html


I ended up sending her one which wen't "Scientists have proven that at one point most women will contain intelligent DNA, the problem is that 95% of them spit it out again."
 
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