"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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good flrty txt msgs?

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can anyone point me towards a few good lists of flirty text messages?

Working on this girl at work and need to keep the flirting a bit subtle for now.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I really think it'd be better if you just talked to her. Hard to convey flirting unless your face to face.
 
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Mines Bigger :p lol.

DJ and Text Message are antonyms buddy... It's unlawful to use them in the same sentence... you now have to be castrated and injected with estrogen

Thankyou
 
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what do most flirters say? if you know, use it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm fully aware of the fact that text message flirting isn't exactly a "DJ" thing to do but the situations kinda unique. We work in a small office and theres only 8 of us so talking face to face isn't a problem..... in fact it's all going well and i've been flirting yesterday and today, slowly building a bit of kino up. It's just that we're sending the odd flirty message to each other when we're only a meter away from each other and it's got a knid of "naughty and secret" feel to it. Like nobody else in the office is aware of it which makes it exciting. know what i mean?

Anyway i found acouple of sites so i'll post them incase anyone else tries to search for the same thing.

http://www.txt2nite.com/menu.html

http://www.smsmasters.co.uk/forum/archive/index.php/f-23.html


I ended up sending her one which wen't "Scientists have proven that at one point most women will contain intelligent DNA, the problem is that 95% of them spit it out again."
 
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