"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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good flrty txt msgs?

chalk

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can anyone point me towards a few good lists of flirty text messages?

Working on this girl at work and need to keep the flirting a bit subtle for now.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I really think it'd be better if you just talked to her. Hard to convey flirting unless your face to face.
 

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Mines Bigger :p lol.

DJ and Text Message are antonyms buddy... It's unlawful to use them in the same sentence... you now have to be castrated and injected with estrogen

Thankyou
 
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what do most flirters say? if you know, use it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm fully aware of the fact that text message flirting isn't exactly a "DJ" thing to do but the situations kinda unique. We work in a small office and theres only 8 of us so talking face to face isn't a problem..... in fact it's all going well and i've been flirting yesterday and today, slowly building a bit of kino up. It's just that we're sending the odd flirty message to each other when we're only a meter away from each other and it's got a knid of "naughty and secret" feel to it. Like nobody else in the office is aware of it which makes it exciting. know what i mean?

Anyway i found acouple of sites so i'll post them incase anyone else tries to search for the same thing.

http://www.txt2nite.com/menu.html

http://www.smsmasters.co.uk/forum/archive/index.php/f-23.html


I ended up sending her one which wen't "Scientists have proven that at one point most women will contain intelligent DNA, the problem is that 95% of them spit it out again."
 
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