Second place is first loser.
To keep a woman around, you need to come in first and stay in first. When a woman ghosts you, you failed to come in first place.
Like it or not, we're competing heavily for women. You're in competition for a woman no matter how attractive she is.
Never judge how well a first date went. Between your first and second date, she might get that response she was craving from Drake, Lebron James, or Dwayne Johnson.
Worse yet, it only takes one quirk, action, or inaction to get you rejected and ghosted. i.e.
1. Too available
2. Too carefree
3. Not rich enough
4. Prefers Samsung over iphone
5. Don't have social media
6. Cheers for Clemson
7. Texting too little
8. Emotionless
9. Works too much
10. Attends a rival school
11. Plays PS4 over Xbox One
Basically having too much or too little of something can cost you. Also, having something or not having something can cost you.