Ok I'll keep this short so matched a chick from tinder we went out had a good time she was feeling me up etc. Had a good time she even asked for another date and all of a sudden she went cold and haven't heard from her since. Any one else had this happen?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Good first date then ghost...
- Thread starter Randzilla
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
guru1000
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Yes I do that to women all the time. She has other irons in the fire.
Some of guys have no idea the plethora of options hot women have on OLD. If you’re not “beating” the image of her ex (who dumped her) that she paints in her egotistical mind, you’re not much to her.
You men need to stop investing so much. Make these women work.
Some of guys have no idea the plethora of options hot women have on OLD. If you’re not “beating” the image of her ex (who dumped her) that she paints in her egotistical mind, you’re not much to her.
You men need to stop investing so much. Make these women work.
marmel75
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Pretty common these days. Unless you banged her on the first date there is no real guarantee of you seeing her again and sometimes not even if that happened.
You should be dating multiple women so this doesn't even phase you.
Also, most guys vastly overestimate how "well" the first date went.
You should be dating multiple women so this doesn't even phase you.
Also, most guys vastly overestimate how "well" the first date went.
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Second place is first loser.
To keep a woman around, you need to come in first and stay in first. When a woman ghosts you, you failed to come in first place.
Like it or not, we're competing heavily for women. You're in competition for a woman no matter how attractive she is.
Never judge how well a first date went. Between your first and second date, she might get that response she was craving from Drake, Lebron James, or Dwayne Johnson.
Worse yet, it only takes one quirk, action, or inaction to get you rejected and ghosted. i.e.
1. Too available
2. Too carefree
3. Not rich enough
4. Prefers Samsung over iphone
5. Don't have social media
6. Cheers for Clemson
7. Texting too little
8. Emotionless
9. Works too much
10. Attends a rival school
11. Plays PS4 over Xbox One
Basically having too much or too little of something can cost you. Also, having something or not having something can cost you.
To keep a woman around, you need to come in first and stay in first. When a woman ghosts you, you failed to come in first place.
Like it or not, we're competing heavily for women. You're in competition for a woman no matter how attractive she is.
Never judge how well a first date went. Between your first and second date, she might get that response she was craving from Drake, Lebron James, or Dwayne Johnson.
Worse yet, it only takes one quirk, action, or inaction to get you rejected and ghosted. i.e.
1. Too available
2. Too carefree
3. Not rich enough
4. Prefers Samsung over iphone
5. Don't have social media
6. Cheers for Clemson
7. Texting too little
8. Emotionless
9. Works too much
10. Attends a rival school
11. Plays PS4 over Xbox One
Basically having too much or too little of something can cost you. Also, having something or not having something can cost you.