Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Good article describes dating in my parts of Floriduh (retiree area) Worst in the country

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I live close to this region, a few miles away from that county. Actually, Sarasota County has identical median age range to my county. This article says dating is bad in those two counties, but even on OLD there are many more women in those two counties as I've gotten a couple OLD dates from there. But anyway, that area is very similar demographics wise to me and very close to me.

My city however has a median age of 66!
Apartment List surveyed 20,000 single renters across the country from Feb. 15, 2019 to Dec. 31, 2019, asking them how they would rate their current city or neighborhood in terms of opportunities to date. Every metro area interviewed a minimum of 25 people, including both heterosexual and LGBTQIA respondents.

This conclusion will likely shock no one in the area who is single, especially if you’re under the age of 30. I’m not sure what the dating scene is like here if you’re a single senior citizen, but I have to imagine it’s better since the local population skews older.

The median age in Sarasota County is 55.5 years old, compared to 41.9 in Florida as a whole, according to the 2018 American Community Survey. In Manatee County, the median age is 48 years old.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ok then move. If its such a bad place to find women then go somewhere better.
I agree but I thought I 'd just share the article so you didn't think I was the only one. A few counties to my south ranked pretty bad too and an article on it.
 

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Ok then move. If its such a bad place to find women then go somewhere better.
Maybe his family's there and he's not brave enough to venture out into the wild blue yonder like some can. I know that almost All of my classmates from high school didn't stray more than 3 to 500 miles away. I went over a thousand. I was like, I KNOW the women can't be THIS bad everywhere.
 

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Maybe his family's there and he's not brave enough to venture out into the wild blue yonder like some can. I know that almost All of my classmates from high school didn't stray more than 3 to 500 miles away. I went over a thousand. I was like, I KNOW the women can't be THIS bad everywhere.
Yea I just read your post about those cvnt women from high school.

Also, floriduh a lot of people and women post wall with baggage move here running away from their problems up north. I got a couple of single moms like that on my street.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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