"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Good article describes dating in my parts of Floriduh (retiree area) Worst in the country

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I live close to this region, a few miles away from that county. Actually, Sarasota County has identical median age range to my county. This article says dating is bad in those two counties, but even on OLD there are many more women in those two counties as I've gotten a couple OLD dates from there. But anyway, that area is very similar demographics wise to me and very close to me.

My city however has a median age of 66!
Apartment List surveyed 20,000 single renters across the country from Feb. 15, 2019 to Dec. 31, 2019, asking them how they would rate their current city or neighborhood in terms of opportunities to date. Every metro area interviewed a minimum of 25 people, including both heterosexual and LGBTQIA respondents.

This conclusion will likely shock no one in the area who is single, especially if you’re under the age of 30. I’m not sure what the dating scene is like here if you’re a single senior citizen, but I have to imagine it’s better since the local population skews older.

The median age in Sarasota County is 55.5 years old, compared to 41.9 in Florida as a whole, according to the 2018 American Community Survey. In Manatee County, the median age is 48 years old.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Ok then move. If its such a bad place to find women then go somewhere better.
I agree but I thought I 'd just share the article so you didn't think I was the only one. A few counties to my south ranked pretty bad too and an article on it.
 

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Ok then move. If its such a bad place to find women then go somewhere better.
Maybe his family's there and he's not brave enough to venture out into the wild blue yonder like some can. I know that almost All of my classmates from high school didn't stray more than 3 to 500 miles away. I went over a thousand. I was like, I KNOW the women can't be THIS bad everywhere.
 

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Maybe his family's there and he's not brave enough to venture out into the wild blue yonder like some can. I know that almost All of my classmates from high school didn't stray more than 3 to 500 miles away. I went over a thousand. I was like, I KNOW the women can't be THIS bad everywhere.
Yea I just read your post about those cvnt women from high school.

Also, floriduh a lot of people and women post wall with baggage move here running away from their problems up north. I got a couple of single moms like that on my street.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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