nicksaiz65
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So are you like exclusively attracted to 50 year old women? Just asking lolSo you think young women are less miserable than a middle age post wall?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
So are you like exclusively attracted to 50 year old women? Just asking lolSo you think young women are less miserable than a middle age post wall?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
So. That is really pushing it. It's just on old you see a lot more women post wall. Dont see many under 35 on old unless they're white trash and obese. In big cities it's a lot different. Like my hometown lots of normal 30 year olds on it. Down here the decent ones are 38 to 50 range.So are you like exclusively attracted to 50 year old women? Just asking lol
I don't understand it anymore then TFM and a doll lolSo are you like exclusively attracted to 50 year old women? Just asking lol
What else would you use it for?I only use old for dating.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
No, I mean finding girls I only use OLD. I don't meet them out and about. It's mostly old people I see. I certainly don't want a 60 year old. If I did there are plenty of those around here!What else would you use it for?
No, I know it!So you think young women are less miserable than a middle age post wall?
What about making a youtube video channel? Maybe some women might find you online that way.No, I mean finding girls I only use OLD. I don't meet them out and about. It's mostly old people I see. I certainly don't want a 60 year old. If I did there are plenty of those around here!
Talking to a 44 year old 50 miles away I might go meet in 2 weeks. OLD is all I have to meet women around here and even on there really none in my county hardly. Usually 30 or more miles away.
You mean monetize it like that? gotta get a lot of viewers. But a lot of these beta cuck guys have youtube channels and get hundreds of thousands of views. You know, the opposite of what's promoted on this website of how to be a man.What about making a youtube video channel? Maybe some women might find you online that way.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Between a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate her interest level towards you?Well still have not heard from her since thur. When should I initiate contact?
So, what do you have to lose? You are already beta because you are going after old women who have a low interest level with you. It could only get better from there.You mean monetize it like that? gotta get a lot of viewers. But a lot of these beta cuck guys have youtube channels and get hundreds of thousands of views. You know, the opposite of what's promoted on this website of how to be a man.
Was about close to 7 at one point. Remember she sent me selfies every other day. Even after our first meeting shed send selfies a lot looking all sexy and cute and would text a lot.Between a scale of 1 to 10, how would you rate her interest level towards you?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
If there r kindergartens, primary schools, secondary school, colleges etc in ur state or district then there's definitely a good number of females of all ages roaming around.No, I mean finding girls I only use OLD. I don't meet them out and about. It's mostly old people I see. I certainly don't want a 60 year old. If I did there are plenty of those around here!
Talking to a 44 year old 50 miles away I might go meet in 2 weeks. OLD is all I have to meet women around here and even on there really none in my county hardly. Usually 30 or more miles away.
They're not on OLD in this county or the next county over and when I'm out and about I certainly don't see them. A lot of them move here and are already married. So you mean hangout by the schools and be a creep LOL.If there r kindergartens, primary schools, secondary school, colleges etc in ur state or district then there's definitely a good number of females of all ages roaming around.
I meant that if there are schools about then that means there's a substantial population to support such schools right?They're not on OLD in this county or the next county over and when I'm out and about I certainly don't see them. A lot of them move here and are already married. So you mean hangout by the schools and be a creep LOL.
Because if I look at places like Miami, Orlando there are lots of single, and decent looking pre wall women on OLD. Around here I set searches to 50 miles and it's mostly post wall.
Remember, the median age for my county is 56 and the city I live in is 66. The larger county to my north the median age is 55 as well.
If you're a widow or single and 65 you will clean up big time down here in person.
I know my county laid off a few teachers and staff DESPITE it has grown, BUT it's been mostly 65 and over move here in bunches. When I moved here in 2015 there were less old people. I do notice more of them. I think my county is about 270k now. Hard to estimate because it's so seasonal. It has a total of 3 high schools. My local HS I think has about 900 students. I think we also have two middle schools but we have no private schools in my county.I meant that if there are schools about then that means there's a substantial population to support such schools right?
If there is a lopsided population that's mostly ageing as per ur contention then those schools will either close or be winded down, which is logical.
But if it's thriving then either u r lying or you just enjoy mingling around with oldies, which is of course ur choice.
However if I were you, I would definitely get off OLD apps since you can only find old farts online (who can't give 2 shiets abt you to begin with) AND then try to cultivate a social network.
Have you considered that option?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.