ok ive got a girl i want to pursue. we have talked a few times at school and she seems cool. she actually talks to me. the thing is i only get to see her once a week in a class. the situation is shes a bit younger than me and i dont want to scare her off. would it be better for me to take some time to build rapport with her or straight up ask for her number?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
go for it or build rapport?
- Thread starter spang
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
No harm in asking for her number. Build a slight rapport over text, then ask to meet up. See where it goes from there. Be cool and don't make crazy future expectations and you'll be fine.
JohnChops
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Ask for her number .... Asking for her number is the only instant way to tell if she's attracted to you.
Start a small conversation and ask her for it... What's the big deal .
Start a small conversation and ask her for it... What's the big deal .
D.J. King Allister
Don Juan
Build rapport, then ask her for coffee or lunch. Afterwards, you get the number if you want. You need to do this the next time you see her, or it'll be get more complicated.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
shes the only one there who so far been willing to have longer than a 5 minute conversation with me lol. we talked about math stuff, where shes from, and i made her laugh a few times so thats a plus.omega05 said:
i really feel like this girl is out of my league...even though i dont believe in leagues, lets be realistic. she prolly has a bf. but i will try anyway.:box: