The only way you'll ever get plate is by being firm. It shows that you're confident and you don't have time to put up with their bs. All you have to do is tell them directly what you need from them. If they don't give you the answer you wanted, neg hit and eject immediately. Don't linger around because once they smell fear, you'll lose control over the situation. Remember, it's your right to demand to be treated as equal not as a lesser human being.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Give plate one chance only
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There is no equal.
Hypergamy in a nutshell: she believes she's entitled to a superior mate.
She views you as superior or inferior. You're viewed as inferior and it ain't happening....
Looks, money, status (attractiveness, education, popularity) .....you better outgun her in at least two of those áreas.
Same with interest level. Hers better be higher than yours. At least she better believe it is.
If your talking about pick up. Your frame had better place you above her.
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You're the CEO, she's the employee
You're the oak tree, she's the squierel
You're the island, she is the waves
You're the teacher, she's the student
You're the MAN, she the woman
Act accordingly
wifehunter
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I am the earth, she is the moon.
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Points taken, but it's not that cut and dry. I always give people one mulligan, unless they do something so egregious like stand me up. You come off as a **** if you verbalize your intentions that abrasively. Words are only needed if she does an inappropriate behavior, in which case you tell her what she did wrong.
Actions always speak louder than words. You only eject if it is not salvageable. Bad behavior is cured most of the time by withdrawing attention and demoting her status to backup plate / booty call.
You are the earth and your stable of women are the stars in your orbit.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
wifehunter
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If they the stars, then I am actually... uhh...
...one of these:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Active_galactic_nucleus
Atom Smasher
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I am the Walrus.
wifehunter
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Lol!!! I like turtles!
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Not necessarily true. A ***** might have more money than you.. and she'll know it.. yet you have more sexual and sensual influence over her..
Try dating a lawyer chick or a chick thats got alot going on. They'res no either or.. You balance out .. especially if shes a feisty 10/10.. and if you dont balance out, you're only going for bimbos.. Shows what level you're on.
Brad Pitt went from bimbos to a top class *****.. Now if you asked him does he think hes superior, you'll know there can be a same level.
All that "im superior to all women" **** is how you catch some STD's and then feel stupid when you got no bitches left while you talk about the past like "man i used to have so many chicks.. iused to do this.. i used to do that"..
Some guys only go for easy's.. Others dominated that section and go for hard to gets.. The type that are on the same level but in a feminine aspect. Ying And Yang.. You gotta be the Yang to her Ying with top class chicks.