"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The only way you'll ever get plate is by being firm. It shows that you're confident and you don't have time to put up with their bs. All you have to do is tell them directly what you need from them. If they don't give you the answer you wanted, neg hit and eject immediately. Don't linger around because once they smell fear, you'll lose control over the situation. Remember, it's your right to demand to be treated as equal not as a lesser human being.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The only way you'll ever get plate is by being firm. It shows that you're confident and you don't have time to put up with their bs. All you have to do is tell them directly what you need from them. If they don't give you the answer you wanted, neg hit and eject immediately. Don't linger around because once they smell fear, you'll lose control over the situation. Remember, it's your right to demand to be treated as equal not as a lesser human being.
There is no equal.

Hypergamy in a nutshell: she believes she's entitled to a superior mate.

She views you as superior or inferior. You're viewed as inferior and it ain't happening....

Looks, money, status (attractiveness, education, popularity) .....you better outgun her in at least two of those áreas.

Same with interest level. Hers better be higher than yours. At least she better believe it is.

If your talking about pick up. Your frame had better place you above her.
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You're the CEO, she's the employee
You're the oak tree, she's the squierel
You're the island, she is the waves
You're the teacher, she's the student
You're the MAN, she the woman

Act accordingly
 

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I am the earth, she is the moon.
 

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All you have to do is tell them directly what you need from them. If they don't give you the answer you wanted, neg hit and eject immediately. Don't linger around because once they smell fear, you'll lose control over the situation. Remember, it's your right to demand to be treated as equal not as a lesser human being.
Points taken, but it's not that cut and dry. I always give people one mulligan, unless they do something so egregious like stand me up. You come off as a **** if you verbalize your intentions that abrasively. Words are only needed if she does an inappropriate behavior, in which case you tell her what she did wrong.

Actions always speak louder than words. You only eject if it is not salvageable. Bad behavior is cured most of the time by withdrawing attention and demoting her status to backup plate / booty call.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There is no equal.

Hypergamy in a nutshell: she believes she's entitled to a superior mate.

She views you as superior or inferior. You're viewed as inferior and it ain't happening....

Looks, money, status (attractiveness, education, popularity) .....you better outgun her in at least two of those áreas.

Same with interest level. Hers better be higher than yours. At least she better believe it is.

If your talking about pick up. Your frame had better place you above her.
..

You're the CEO, she's the employee
You're the oak tree, she's the squierel
You're the island, she is the waves
You're the teacher, she's the student
You're the MAN, she the woman

Act accordingly
Not necessarily true. A ***** might have more money than you.. and she'll know it.. yet you have more sexual and sensual influence over her..

Try dating a lawyer chick or a chick thats got alot going on. They'res no either or.. You balance out .. especially if shes a feisty 10/10.. and if you dont balance out, you're only going for bimbos.. Shows what level you're on.

Brad Pitt went from bimbos to a top class *****.. Now if you asked him does he think hes superior, you'll know there can be a same level.

All that "im superior to all women" **** is how you catch some STD's and then feel stupid when you got no bitches left while you talk about the past like "man i used to have so many chicks.. iused to do this.. i used to do that"..

Some guys only go for easy's.. Others dominated that section and go for hard to gets.. The type that are on the same level but in a feminine aspect. Ying And Yang.. You gotta be the Yang to her Ying with top class chicks.
 
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