The only way you'll ever get plate is by being firm. It shows that you're confident and you don't have time to put up with their bs. All you have to do is tell them directly what you need from them. If they don't give you the answer you wanted, neg hit and eject immediately. Don't linger around because once they smell fear, you'll lose control over the situation. Remember, it's your right to demand to be treated as equal not as a lesser human being.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Give plate one chance only
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
There is no equal.
Hypergamy in a nutshell: she believes she's entitled to a superior mate.
She views you as superior or inferior. You're viewed as inferior and it ain't happening....
Looks, money, status (attractiveness, education, popularity) .....you better outgun her in at least two of those áreas.
Same with interest level. Hers better be higher than yours. At least she better believe it is.
If your talking about pick up. Your frame had better place you above her.
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You're the CEO, she's the employee
You're the oak tree, she's the squierel
You're the island, she is the waves
You're the teacher, she's the student
You're the MAN, she the woman
Act accordingly
wifehunter
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I am the earth, she is the moon.
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Points taken, but it's not that cut and dry. I always give people one mulligan, unless they do something so egregious like stand me up. You come off as a **** if you verbalize your intentions that abrasively. Words are only needed if she does an inappropriate behavior, in which case you tell her what she did wrong.
Actions always speak louder than words. You only eject if it is not salvageable. Bad behavior is cured most of the time by withdrawing attention and demoting her status to backup plate / booty call.
You are the earth and your stable of women are the stars in your orbit.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
wifehunter
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If they the stars, then I am actually... uhh...
...one of these:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Active_galactic_nucleus
Atom Smasher
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I am the Walrus.
wifehunter
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Lol!!! I like turtles!
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Not necessarily true. A ***** might have more money than you.. and she'll know it.. yet you have more sexual and sensual influence over her..
Try dating a lawyer chick or a chick thats got alot going on. They'res no either or.. You balance out .. especially if shes a feisty 10/10.. and if you dont balance out, you're only going for bimbos.. Shows what level you're on.
Brad Pitt went from bimbos to a top class *****.. Now if you asked him does he think hes superior, you'll know there can be a same level.
All that "im superior to all women" **** is how you catch some STD's and then feel stupid when you got no bitches left while you talk about the past like "man i used to have so many chicks.. iused to do this.. i used to do that"..
Some guys only go for easy's.. Others dominated that section and go for hard to gets.. The type that are on the same level but in a feminine aspect. Ying And Yang.. You gotta be the Yang to her Ying with top class chicks.