The only way you'll ever get plate is by being firm. It shows that you're confident and you don't have time to put up with their bs. All you have to do is tell them directly what you need from them. If they don't give you the answer you wanted, neg hit and eject immediately. Don't linger around because once they smell fear, you'll lose control over the situation. Remember, it's your right to demand to be treated as equal not as a lesser human being.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Give plate one chance only
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
There is no equal.
Hypergamy in a nutshell: she believes she's entitled to a superior mate.
She views you as superior or inferior. You're viewed as inferior and it ain't happening....
Looks, money, status (attractiveness, education, popularity) .....you better outgun her in at least two of those áreas.
Same with interest level. Hers better be higher than yours. At least she better believe it is.
If your talking about pick up. Your frame had better place you above her.
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You're the CEO, she's the employee
You're the oak tree, she's the squierel
You're the island, she is the waves
You're the teacher, she's the student
You're the MAN, she the woman
Act accordingly
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
I am the earth, she is the moon.
EyeBRollin
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Points taken, but it's not that cut and dry. I always give people one mulligan, unless they do something so egregious like stand me up. You come off as a **** if you verbalize your intentions that abrasively. Words are only needed if she does an inappropriate behavior, in which case you tell her what she did wrong.
Actions always speak louder than words. You only eject if it is not salvageable. Bad behavior is cured most of the time by withdrawing attention and demoting her status to backup plate / booty call.
You are the earth and your stable of women are the stars in your orbit.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
If they the stars, then I am actually... uhh...
...one of these:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Active_galactic_nucleus
Atom Smasher
Master Don Juan
I am the Walrus.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Lol!!! I like turtles!
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Not necessarily true. A ***** might have more money than you.. and she'll know it.. yet you have more sexual and sensual influence over her..
Try dating a lawyer chick or a chick thats got alot going on. They'res no either or.. You balance out .. especially if shes a feisty 10/10.. and if you dont balance out, you're only going for bimbos.. Shows what level you're on.
Brad Pitt went from bimbos to a top class *****.. Now if you asked him does he think hes superior, you'll know there can be a same level.
All that "im superior to all women" **** is how you catch some STD's and then feel stupid when you got no bitches left while you talk about the past like "man i used to have so many chicks.. iused to do this.. i used to do that"..
Some guys only go for easy's.. Others dominated that section and go for hard to gets.. The type that are on the same level but in a feminine aspect. Ying And Yang.. You gotta be the Yang to her Ying with top class chicks.