mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
"Just text me 123-456-7890"
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Give me the brutal truth of cold approaching
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Woah dude you have the coolest phone number!
When someone starts approaching they will be unsuccessful 98/100 times and will screw up the other two.
Even the best are unsuccessful it’s just that their game is tighter and they learn to filter out girls who aren’t interested. They realize that the ego can be the worst enemy because it can push you to try to recover from an unrecoverable situation.
You get more ripped by failing when strength training same applies to approaches.
If you do not learn and adapt you will not get better just as if you never change your lifting routine you will plateau.
Even the best are unsuccessful it’s just that their game is tighter and they learn to filter out girls who aren’t interested. They realize that the ego can be the worst enemy because it can push you to try to recover from an unrecoverable situation.
You get more ripped by failing when strength training same applies to approaches.
If you do not learn and adapt you will not get better just as if you never change your lifting routine you will plateau.
zekko
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devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.