mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
"Just text me 123-456-7890"
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Give me the brutal truth of cold approaching
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Woah dude you have the coolest phone number!
When someone starts approaching they will be unsuccessful 98/100 times and will screw up the other two.
Even the best are unsuccessful it’s just that their game is tighter and they learn to filter out girls who aren’t interested. They realize that the ego can be the worst enemy because it can push you to try to recover from an unrecoverable situation.
You get more ripped by failing when strength training same applies to approaches.
If you do not learn and adapt you will not get better just as if you never change your lifting routine you will plateau.
Even the best are unsuccessful it’s just that their game is tighter and they learn to filter out girls who aren’t interested. They realize that the ego can be the worst enemy because it can push you to try to recover from an unrecoverable situation.
You get more ripped by failing when strength training same applies to approaches.
If you do not learn and adapt you will not get better just as if you never change your lifting routine you will plateau.
zekko
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devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.