mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
"Just text me 123-456-7890"
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Give me the brutal truth of cold approaching
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
Woah dude you have the coolest phone number!
When someone starts approaching they will be unsuccessful 98/100 times and will screw up the other two.
Even the best are unsuccessful it’s just that their game is tighter and they learn to filter out girls who aren’t interested. They realize that the ego can be the worst enemy because it can push you to try to recover from an unrecoverable situation.
You get more ripped by failing when strength training same applies to approaches.
If you do not learn and adapt you will not get better just as if you never change your lifting routine you will plateau.
Even the best are unsuccessful it’s just that their game is tighter and they learn to filter out girls who aren’t interested. They realize that the ego can be the worst enemy because it can push you to try to recover from an unrecoverable situation.
You get more ripped by failing when strength training same applies to approaches.
If you do not learn and adapt you will not get better just as if you never change your lifting routine you will plateau.
zekko
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devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.