LaughyDuck
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Ok "wife"-hunter. Go on your hunt for some nice toys.
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Girls who want to set you up with their girls friends
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
LaughyDuck
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Yes why she should she even mentioned to set me up with semi-hot girl and I fairly know her?
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Does the irony escape you?
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If someone wants to change the own personality than only under this circumstances:
* Only for the better if there was something really wrong, meaning you didn´t get your big goals because of that.
* Inside the own identity frame, meaning becoming a better version of yourself instead of becoming a another guy. Becoming a complete another person is not impossible but very difficult and often the wrong move. It is like a crocodile trying to become a lion...It doesn´t end well.
If you have family, friends and other people that love and like you, than usually there is nothing wrong with your personality. So changing your own personality for a particular woman is a hardcore Beta-move that will get you in a lot of trouble. Specially if she already knows the way you were before, she will think that you are trying to foul her or that you are a pathetic loser that will do anything to get a pu**y. Anyway you are going to lose her.
If you play another guy for a evening in order to get laid once with a very hot woman and then move on, well then this is no problem I guess.
* Only for the better if there was something really wrong, meaning you didn´t get your big goals because of that.
* Inside the own identity frame, meaning becoming a better version of yourself instead of becoming a another guy. Becoming a complete another person is not impossible but very difficult and often the wrong move. It is like a crocodile trying to become a lion...It doesn´t end well.
If you have family, friends and other people that love and like you, than usually there is nothing wrong with your personality. So changing your own personality for a particular woman is a hardcore Beta-move that will get you in a lot of trouble. Specially if she already knows the way you were before, she will think that you are trying to foul her or that you are a pathetic loser that will do anything to get a pu**y. Anyway you are going to lose her.
If you play another guy for a evening in order to get laid once with a very hot woman and then move on, well then this is no problem I guess.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Yes I don't get it.
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Nope I met her at university we continued writing on fb as she went to an other school.
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Irony in case of you calling me sparkle would be that in fact I gave her a hoe name. Which is not the case. But if you see the irony somewhere else I would be glad if you could elobarte ...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wifehunter
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lolz!
Personalities changes over time and it also happens when either a positive or negative life event took place hence with the input of new information, new ideology or a life event...etc it broadens/narrows your mindset and that ultimately shape how you do things = results.
It's when a man continously tries to change they way he does things but never change the mindset = repeated failure.
How you think + how you do things = results.
Anyone care to dispute that?
Most people r preoccupied with how they go about doing certain things, they keep on changing the way they do things but getting the same results, little do they know that how they think affects how they do things.
It's when a man continously tries to change they way he does things but never change the mindset = repeated failure.
How you think + how you do things = results.
Anyone care to dispute that?
Most people r preoccupied with how they go about doing certain things, they keep on changing the way they do things but getting the same results, little do they know that how they think affects how they do things.
zekko
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Maybe the default response to someone wanting to set you up should be: "Is she fat?".
Regarding personality change, I'm still not so sure it's that easy to change your personality. I would think it's mostly formed by a certain age. I used to be shy, but I learned to be outgoing, so I can turn that on when I want. But it doesn't change the fact that I am still an introvert at heart. Although I don't see anything wrong with being an introvert, so I don't see any reason to change it.
Amongst the 4 personality quadrants, the intellectual quadrant will have a very hard time to change.
The doers, motivators and social quadrant are fluid as in its within themselves to change according to their environment. They all do at any given settings, they just don't realise that they are doing it.