LaughyDuck
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Ok "wife"-hunter. Go on your hunt for some nice toys.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Girls who want to set you up with their girls friends
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
LaughyDuck
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Yes why she should she even mentioned to set me up with semi-hot girl and I fairly know her?
wifehunter
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Does the irony escape you?
Juan from Austria
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If someone wants to change the own personality than only under this circumstances:
* Only for the better if there was something really wrong, meaning you didn´t get your big goals because of that.
* Inside the own identity frame, meaning becoming a better version of yourself instead of becoming a another guy. Becoming a complete another person is not impossible but very difficult and often the wrong move. It is like a crocodile trying to become a lion...It doesn´t end well.
If you have family, friends and other people that love and like you, than usually there is nothing wrong with your personality. So changing your own personality for a particular woman is a hardcore Beta-move that will get you in a lot of trouble. Specially if she already knows the way you were before, she will think that you are trying to foul her or that you are a pathetic loser that will do anything to get a pu**y. Anyway you are going to lose her.
If you play another guy for a evening in order to get laid once with a very hot woman and then move on, well then this is no problem I guess.
* Only for the better if there was something really wrong, meaning you didn´t get your big goals because of that.
* Inside the own identity frame, meaning becoming a better version of yourself instead of becoming a another guy. Becoming a complete another person is not impossible but very difficult and often the wrong move. It is like a crocodile trying to become a lion...It doesn´t end well.
If you have family, friends and other people that love and like you, than usually there is nothing wrong with your personality. So changing your own personality for a particular woman is a hardcore Beta-move that will get you in a lot of trouble. Specially if she already knows the way you were before, she will think that you are trying to foul her or that you are a pathetic loser that will do anything to get a pu**y. Anyway you are going to lose her.
If you play another guy for a evening in order to get laid once with a very hot woman and then move on, well then this is no problem I guess.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
LaughyDuck
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Yes I don't get it.
LaughyDuck
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Nope I met her at university we continued writing on fb as she went to an other school.
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LaughyDuck
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Irony in case of you calling me sparkle would be that in fact I gave her a hoe name. Which is not the case. But if you see the irony somewhere else I would be glad if you could elobarte ...
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
wifehunter
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lolz!
Personalities changes over time and it also happens when either a positive or negative life event took place hence with the input of new information, new ideology or a life event...etc it broadens/narrows your mindset and that ultimately shape how you do things = results.
It's when a man continously tries to change they way he does things but never change the mindset = repeated failure.
How you think + how you do things = results.
Anyone care to dispute that?
Most people r preoccupied with how they go about doing certain things, they keep on changing the way they do things but getting the same results, little do they know that how they think affects how they do things.
It's when a man continously tries to change they way he does things but never change the mindset = repeated failure.
How you think + how you do things = results.
Anyone care to dispute that?
Most people r preoccupied with how they go about doing certain things, they keep on changing the way they do things but getting the same results, little do they know that how they think affects how they do things.
zekko
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Maybe the default response to someone wanting to set you up should be: "Is she fat?".
Regarding personality change, I'm still not so sure it's that easy to change your personality. I would think it's mostly formed by a certain age. I used to be shy, but I learned to be outgoing, so I can turn that on when I want. But it doesn't change the fact that I am still an introvert at heart. Although I don't see anything wrong with being an introvert, so I don't see any reason to change it.
Amongst the 4 personality quadrants, the intellectual quadrant will have a very hard time to change.
The doers, motivators and social quadrant are fluid as in its within themselves to change according to their environment. They all do at any given settings, they just don't realise that they are doing it.