LaughyDuck
Don Juan
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Ok "wife"-hunter. Go on your hunt for some nice toys.Sparkles is your new hoe name. Like candy or sugar. Glitter could work too.
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Ok "wife"-hunter. Go on your hunt for some nice toys.Sparkles is your new hoe name. Like candy or sugar. Glitter could work too.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Yes why she should she even mentioned to set me up with semi-hot girl and I fairly know her?Yeah, I'm going to disagree with that. I wouldn't change my personality based on one particular incident, anymore than I would expect any guy here to change their personality based on one rejection. More data is needed. Besides, one woman's trash is another woman's treasure. Also, it may be that the girl in question has the "problem" since she's the one who apparently needs setting up.
Personality change is a fairly drastic solution. Maybe you could take some bolder action, show more masculine strength, change some of your goals, try some new tactics, or decide not to be a doormat (if you have been). But that doesn't mean your personality needs entirely reconstructed.
Does the irony escape you?Ok "wife"-hunter. Go on your hunt for some nice toys.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yes I don't get it.Does the irony escape you?
Nope I met her at university we continued writing on fb as she went to an other school.Did you meet this chick on a dating site?
The one that wanted to set you up.
If my screen name was 'beta orbiter'...that would be ironic, also.Yes I don't get it.
Irony in case of you calling me sparkle would be that in fact I gave her a hoe name. Which is not the case. But if you see the irony somewhere else I would be glad if you could elobarte ...If my screen name was 'beta orbiter'...that would be ironic, also.
anything?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
lolz!Irony in case of you calling me sparkle would be that in fact I gave her a hoe name. Which is not the case. But if you see the irony somewhere else I would be glad if you could elobarte ...
Maybe the default response to someone wanting to set you up should be: "Is she fat?".whenever someone wants to set me with their friend, that friend is fatter than <enter some fat person name here> and disgusting
Amongst the 4 personality quadrants, the intellectual quadrant will have a very hard time to change.Maybe the default response to someone wanting to set you up should be: "Is she fat?".
Regarding personality change, I'm still not so sure it's that easy to change your personality. I would think it's mostly formed by a certain age. I used to be shy, but I learned to be outgoing, so I can turn that on when I want. But it doesn't change the fact that I am still an introvert at heart. Although I don't see anything wrong with being an introvert, so I don't see any reason to change it.