"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Girls say I look like a pornstar?

kidkurious

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So, I have a the haircut of a classic porn star from the 70's.
I've got a muscular body from strength training.

One of my girlfriends told me that I look like a porn star.

A girlfriend of my friend described me as the guy who looks like a porn star.

I was wondering... is this a good thing? or a creepy thing?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SexyBoi

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could have been a number of things good or bad.

You may have been being called a number of things:

Sexy
Fine
Hott

or

*****
Slut

or

you just resemble a porn star from the 70's!
 

theunflushables

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Do you have the mustache too? If not you should grow it to complete the look. :D
 

Poonani Maker

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I've been called that too while standing in line at a club or a pub. I go along with it and say, "You should see the rest of me" or "I been in a couple" (don't complete the sentence with "movies" just let their imaginations run wild with "a couple what?" "what?" "what?" How do I come up with 'what to say' in a conversation like that? By absorbing Swinggcat's prizing Real World Seduction material. It just comes natural if you know the construct of how to act = ambiguous & incomplete. Never give her everything. Leave her wanting more (of you).
 

IPalindromeI

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Honestly, I can't ever remember 'you look like a pornstar' as ever being a positive thing. Particularly for men.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Derek Flint

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I had some chick ask me that once. I asked her if she watches a lot of porn.
 

SharinganUser

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I think this thread is a contender for heavy weight worthless thread of the year champion ship belt.
 
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