"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girls say I look like a pornstar?

kidkurious

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So, I have a the haircut of a classic porn star from the 70's.
I've got a muscular body from strength training.

One of my girlfriends told me that I look like a porn star.

A girlfriend of my friend described me as the guy who looks like a porn star.

I was wondering... is this a good thing? or a creepy thing?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SexyBoi

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could have been a number of things good or bad.

You may have been being called a number of things:

Sexy
Fine
Hott

or

*****
Slut

or

you just resemble a porn star from the 70's!
 

theunflushables

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Do you have the mustache too? If not you should grow it to complete the look. :D
 

Poonani Maker

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I've been called that too while standing in line at a club or a pub. I go along with it and say, "You should see the rest of me" or "I been in a couple" (don't complete the sentence with "movies" just let their imaginations run wild with "a couple what?" "what?" "what?" How do I come up with 'what to say' in a conversation like that? By absorbing Swinggcat's prizing Real World Seduction material. It just comes natural if you know the construct of how to act = ambiguous & incomplete. Never give her everything. Leave her wanting more (of you).
 

IPalindromeI

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Honestly, I can't ever remember 'you look like a pornstar' as ever being a positive thing. Particularly for men.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Derek Flint

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I had some chick ask me that once. I asked her if she watches a lot of porn.
 

SharinganUser

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I think this thread is a contender for heavy weight worthless thread of the year champion ship belt.
 
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