"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girls say I look like a pornstar?

kidkurious

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So, I have a the haircut of a classic porn star from the 70's.
I've got a muscular body from strength training.

One of my girlfriends told me that I look like a porn star.

A girlfriend of my friend described me as the guy who looks like a porn star.

I was wondering... is this a good thing? or a creepy thing?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SexyBoi

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could have been a number of things good or bad.

You may have been being called a number of things:

Sexy
Fine
Hott

or

*****
Slut

or

you just resemble a porn star from the 70's!
 

theunflushables

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Do you have the mustache too? If not you should grow it to complete the look. :D
 

Poonani Maker

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I've been called that too while standing in line at a club or a pub. I go along with it and say, "You should see the rest of me" or "I been in a couple" (don't complete the sentence with "movies" just let their imaginations run wild with "a couple what?" "what?" "what?" How do I come up with 'what to say' in a conversation like that? By absorbing Swinggcat's prizing Real World Seduction material. It just comes natural if you know the construct of how to act = ambiguous & incomplete. Never give her everything. Leave her wanting more (of you).
 

IPalindromeI

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Honestly, I can't ever remember 'you look like a pornstar' as ever being a positive thing. Particularly for men.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Derek Flint

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I had some chick ask me that once. I asked her if she watches a lot of porn.
 

SharinganUser

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I think this thread is a contender for heavy weight worthless thread of the year champion ship belt.
 
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