"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Girls say I look like a pornstar?

kidkurious

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So, I have a the haircut of a classic porn star from the 70's.
I've got a muscular body from strength training.

One of my girlfriends told me that I look like a porn star.

A girlfriend of my friend described me as the guy who looks like a porn star.

I was wondering... is this a good thing? or a creepy thing?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SexyBoi

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could have been a number of things good or bad.

You may have been being called a number of things:

Sexy
Fine
Hott

or

*****
Slut

or

you just resemble a porn star from the 70's!
 

theunflushables

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Do you have the mustache too? If not you should grow it to complete the look. :D
 

Poonani Maker

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I've been called that too while standing in line at a club or a pub. I go along with it and say, "You should see the rest of me" or "I been in a couple" (don't complete the sentence with "movies" just let their imaginations run wild with "a couple what?" "what?" "what?" How do I come up with 'what to say' in a conversation like that? By absorbing Swinggcat's prizing Real World Seduction material. It just comes natural if you know the construct of how to act = ambiguous & incomplete. Never give her everything. Leave her wanting more (of you).
 

IPalindromeI

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Honestly, I can't ever remember 'you look like a pornstar' as ever being a positive thing. Particularly for men.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Derek Flint

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I had some chick ask me that once. I asked her if she watches a lot of porn.
 

SharinganUser

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I think this thread is a contender for heavy weight worthless thread of the year champion ship belt.
 
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