"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Girls say I look like a pornstar?

kidkurious

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So, I have a the haircut of a classic porn star from the 70's.
I've got a muscular body from strength training.

One of my girlfriends told me that I look like a porn star.

A girlfriend of my friend described me as the guy who looks like a porn star.

I was wondering... is this a good thing? or a creepy thing?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SexyBoi

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could have been a number of things good or bad.

You may have been being called a number of things:

Sexy
Fine
Hott

or

*****
Slut

or

you just resemble a porn star from the 70's!
 

theunflushables

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Do you have the mustache too? If not you should grow it to complete the look. :D
 

Poonani Maker

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I've been called that too while standing in line at a club or a pub. I go along with it and say, "You should see the rest of me" or "I been in a couple" (don't complete the sentence with "movies" just let their imaginations run wild with "a couple what?" "what?" "what?" How do I come up with 'what to say' in a conversation like that? By absorbing Swinggcat's prizing Real World Seduction material. It just comes natural if you know the construct of how to act = ambiguous & incomplete. Never give her everything. Leave her wanting more (of you).
 

IPalindromeI

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Honestly, I can't ever remember 'you look like a pornstar' as ever being a positive thing. Particularly for men.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Derek Flint

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I had some chick ask me that once. I asked her if she watches a lot of porn.
 

SharinganUser

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I think this thread is a contender for heavy weight worthless thread of the year champion ship belt.
 
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